Echoes of My Journey

Constant exhaustion was not making me better at work, motherhood or life. Here is why I started prioritising rest, and what changed when I did.

Chigoziri Wodu | The Serene Analyst

Why I Started Prioritising Rest: A Working Mum's Lesson on Exhaustion and Responsibility

There was a time in my life when almost every weekday looked the same. Wake up at 5 a.m. Get ready for work. Get the children ready. Drop them off at daycare. Go to work. Finish work. Pick up the children. Go home. Prepare for the next day. Sleep. W...

Struggling to live in the present while waiting for life to start? A reflection on why the big moments are often closer than we think.

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The Very Next Thing: Who Says the Big Things Are Somewhere Off in the Distance?

Before the pandemic, I was struggling. I had recently returned to work after maternity leave, and while I was away, new tools had been introduced. I felt behind. I felt like I needed to catch up. And so much of my attention was fixed on what came ne...

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Literacy Doesn’t Just Open Books. It Opens Doors.

How reading shapes the way we think, understand ourselves and imagine what is possible When we talk about literacy, we often begin with the obvious. The ability to read. To recognise words on a page. To understand instructions. To write our names, c...

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Jason Arday: A Brief Encounter, A Lasting Echo

I didn’t know Jason Arday personally, but I encountered him at a time in my life when I needed the encouragement he gave me. In 2022, my husband met Jason’s girlfriend while working on their newly purchased home in Croydon. She described Jason as on...

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Broken: The Piece That Brought Me Back to Writing

Some stories change us forever. This is one of mine, a reflection on grief, loss, and the quiet ways we find our way back to ourselves. A Note Before You Read Grief doesn't just take; it has a strange way of reshaping us. Sometimes it silences the p...

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Iced Hands

A Grief That Returned Twenty Years Later, and What It Reminded Me About Living There are moments that divide time. There is life before them. And there is everything that comes after. For me, one of those moments happened on 7 December 2003, the day...

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The Morning I Fell

On the quiet way survival becomes a skill we never chose to carry. I was about ten or eleven. New to boarding school. New to 5 am wake-ups, icy water on my face, and the stiff rhythm of morning PT, running, jumping, obeying instructions that felt fa...

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Before There Was The Serene Analyst

I recently found a notebook from 2005. Inside was an essay titled After Death. As I read through the pages, I realised something that surprised me. I wasn't reading the beginning of a blog, website, or brand. I was meeting the younger version of the...

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The Story Behind "Serene"

Some stories don't begin with a dramatic moment. They begin with a quiet decision that slowly changes the way you see yourself. This is the story of how a teenage girl searching through a dictionary found a word that would stay with her for life. Lo...

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Boundaries: More Than a Buzzword

What I Learned Long Before I Had the Word I didn't know what boundaries meant until well into my twenties. Not because I didn't have them. Because I didn't have the language for them. I knew I couldn't let people trample on me. I...

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The Black-and-White Analyst

An Echo from My Inner Architecture On Clarity, Integrity, and Being Misunderstood This piece began as a question about OCD. It became a reflection on integrity. As I sat with the question, I realised it wasn’t really about diagnosis. It was about un...

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The Skinny Analyst

Body image is rarely about the mirror alone. It is about the quiet comments. The laughter that lingers a moment too long. The stories we begin to tell ourselves, quietly, until they feel like facts. I have always been slim. Growing up, that meant be...

A personal reflection on navigating PhD research, family responsibilities, and creative work while learning that not everything meaningful can move forward at the same pace.

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When Life Pulls You in Every Direction: Finding an Anchor in a Demanding Season

Sometimes exhaustion is not a sign that we are doing the wrong things. Sometimes it is what happens when several meaningful things require our attention at once. This reflection is about learning to live within that reality without carrying guilt fo...

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The Unexpected Journey Through Eyeglasses

A personal story of vision, frustration, and gratitude I’ve been spending a small fortune on glasses over the past few years, and honestly, it’s beginning to wear me down. When I was younger, I saw glasses as an accessory. A fashion statement. I rem...

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Losing My Streak: Reflections on Habits, Identity and Joy

Calm Isn’t Always Consistent As The Serene Analyst, I talk a lot about clarity, calmness, and conscious choices. So, when I opened my Kindle app at 1:00 a.m. and saw my daily reading streak reset to 0, I was unexpectedly rattled. I love reading. I l...

Echoes of My Journey

Some of life's most important lessons emerge quietly through the stories we live.

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