The loss that changed everything
In 2022, my world shifted.
I lost my cousin, someone who was more like a sister. Our Saturday morning catch-ups were a cherished routine. That week, I intended to call her on Wednesday, but I thought, “I’ll wait until Saturday.” She died the next day – Thursday.
The grief was overwhelming. I cried for days. Weeks. I couldn’t make sense of it.
Writing as Healing
Amid heartbreak, I returned to something I’d always loved: writing. I had written stories and reflections for as long as I could remember. This time, the words weren’t just a hobby – they became my outlet.
I also buried myself in my role as a Data Analyst. The structure of analytics – charts, graphs, and dashboards helped me manage the chaos within. That year, I received my best performance appraisal to date and was named Team Member of the Year.
Work was great, but underneath the achievements, I was still grieving.
More Grief, More Growth
2023 brought more loss – layered pain I could hardly articulate. Like clockwork, I turned to work again. I kept writing: unsent letters to my cousin, tributes to her mother (my aunt), who tragically passed just 11 weeks after her. I shared some of these with close family, and they would often say, “You write so well.”
But for me, writing wasn’t about being good – it was survival. A way to stay connected. A way to feel.
Work continued to be a shield. My appraisals kept improving. But my heart wanted something more profound.
Reclaiming My Voice
2024 was a reflective year.
I began to ask myself, What do I really want from life, from my career? I revisited my beginnings – the joy, the curiosity, the pain, the passion.
I felt called to do more than just work hard. I wanted to give back, to inspire, to leave a legacy rooted in light, calm, and truth.
I didn’t want to just be a “perfect employee.” I wanted to be purposeful.
The Birth of The Serene Analyst
In 2025, I took a step back.
I realised that books, writing, and reflection had always been my hiding place – and maybe even my superpower. I no longer wanted to keep that part of me hidden.
And so, The Serene Analyst was born.
I’ve always been Serene (but that’s a story for another day). This blog is my embrace of that identity – calm, thoughtful, reflective, analytical.
What You’ll Find Here
In this space, I’ll tell my story.
- I’ll write about my journey into data analysis.
- I’ll share my passion for healthcare analytics.
- I’ll explore grief, growth, and grace.
- I’ll reflect on the lessons I’ve learned – and the ones I’m still learning.
Above all, I’ll offer calm insights and serene reflections – from one human to another.
Because behind the dashboards and datasets, there’s always a deeper story.
This is mine.
And I’m ready to share it.
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Insight Delivered With Calm Precision,
Chigoziri Wodu.
The Serene Analyst.
